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Powerful Lessons I Got from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” (3|3)

Do you feel like you're not living your best life because you're preoccupied with meeting someone else's expectations?  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck offers a counterintuitive approach to living a fulfilling life. In this book, Mark Manson teaches you to let go of the things holding you back and stop worrying about other people's opinions. You'll learn to live according to your values and find happiness despite your flaws. If you're prepared for genuine change in your life

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“Self-sufficiency is the greatest of all wealth.” — Epicurus.

This passage discusses the concept of "Fck You Money" and the misconception that having abundant wealth and power will guarantee one's freedom and independence. The author mentions that the idea of "Fck You Money" is elusive, as the more we strive for it, the further it seems to be from our grasp. Instead, the author suggests that true wealth and freedom come from self-sufficiency, having fewer needs, and possessing resilient skills that allow us to thrive in any situation. The author cites David "DHH" Heinemeier Hansson's observation that "F*ck You Money" can be a state of mind founded on personal confidence that allows one to stand their ground even if one loses material possessions. The author also references Emerson's essay...

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“This is not your responsibility, but it is your problem.” — Cheryl Strayed.

While it may not be your duty to resolve every issue, sometimes circumstances beyond your control can make it your problem to solve. For instance, if a car breaks down in front of you and blocks the road, it's not your obligation to fill up the driver's gas tank, but it is your problem to deal with the obstruction. Similarly, if war breaks out and you're drafted, you didn't create the conflict, but it is now your problem to fight. These situations can happen unexpectedly and be frustrating and unfair, but they are still yours to confront. You can choose to complain or seek blame, but ultimately, how you respond defines you. Cheryl Strayed wisely noted that life may present...

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“The best revenge is not to be like that.” — Marcus Aurelius.

A popular saying about revenge advises one to dig two graves before embarking on a journey of revenge due to its high cost and the toll it can take on the avenger. However, Marcus Aurelius had a more straightforward and accurate approach. He believed letting go and leaving the wrongdoer to their deeds is better. He practiced what he preached, as evidenced by his response to Avoids Cassius's rebellion, one of his most trusted generals who declared himself emperor. Marcus used this event to teach the Roman people and the Roman Senate how to handle civil strife with compassion and forgiveness instead of seeking vengeance. When Cassius was assassinated, Marcus supposedly wept instead of rejoicing, showing that his approach differed...

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CREATE YOUR BEST LIFE (PART 10) TIPS TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS

Proven Tips To Achieve Your Goals This article will share some proven tips to help you achieve your goals. Having identified what you want and set a goal around this, you need to get started immediately and work towards achieving your plan. But it can be easy to lose focus with all the distractions that most of us have to contend with. Learn and Use Visualization Tactics Visualization is creating images in your mind that can help you achieve goals in your life. It’s one of the best ways to tap into your body’s innate ability to create positive change. It’s also a technique that anyone can use and is a great way to help you achieve your goals. There...

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