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Powerful Lessons I Got from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” (3|3)

Do you feel like you're not living your best life because you're preoccupied with meeting someone else's expectations?  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck offers a counterintuitive approach to living a fulfilling life. In this book, Mark Manson teaches you to let go of the things holding you back and stop worrying about other people's opinions. You'll learn to live according to your values and find happiness despite your flaws. If you're prepared for genuine change in your life

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Powerful Lessons I Got from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” (2|3)

Do you feel like you're not living your best life because you're preoccupied with meeting someone else's expectations?  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck offers a counterintuitive approach to living a fulfilling life. In this book, Mark Manson teaches you to let go of the things holding you back and stop worrying about other people's opinions. You'll learn to live according to your values and find happiness despite your flaws. If you're prepared for genuine change in your life

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“You are only entitled to the action, never to its fruits.” — Bhagavad Gita

No other book or scripture influenced Gandhi, shaped his character, and transformed his life as profoundly and permanently as the Bhagavad Gita. This quote from the Bhagavad Gita is a reminder to focus on the process of doing something rather than worrying about the outcome. You control the action, but the outcome is not always in your hands. For example, imagine you are studying for an important exam. You can only control the amount of effort and time you put into studying, but you cannot control the grade you receive. If you focus on the process of learning to the best of your ability and do not worry too much about the outcome, you will be less stressed and more...

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“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” — Marcus Aurelius.

In both ancient Rome and modern America, people have been tempted to talk rather than take action. The allure of philosophizing instead of living by those philosophies is a common trap. In today's society obsessed with content, outrage, and drama, it's even easier to become lost in the echo chamber of hypothetical debates about what's "better." We can spend endless hours discussing right and wrong and how to encourage others to improve. We can even argue about the meaning of certain statements. However, this is all a distraction. If you want to make the world a better place, there's a lot you can do. But only one thing will truly make an impact: step away from the argument, dig yourself...

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“This is not your responsibility, but it is your problem.” — Cheryl Strayed.

While it may not be your duty to resolve every issue, sometimes circumstances beyond your control can make it your problem to solve. For instance, if a car breaks down in front of you and blocks the road, it's not your obligation to fill up the driver's gas tank, but it is your problem to deal with the obstruction. Similarly, if war breaks out and you're drafted, you didn't create the conflict, but it is now your problem to fight. These situations can happen unexpectedly and be frustrating and unfair, but they are still yours to confront. You can choose to complain or seek blame, but ultimately, how you respond defines you. Cheryl Strayed wisely noted that life may present...

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