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Powerful Lessons I Got from “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” (2|3)

Do you feel like you're not living your best life because you're preoccupied with meeting someone else's expectations?  The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck offers a counterintuitive approach to living a fulfilling life. In this book, Mark Manson teaches you to let go of the things holding you back and stop worrying about other people's opinions. You'll learn to live according to your values and find happiness despite your flaws. If you're prepared for genuine change in your life

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“Waste no more time arguing what a good man should be. Be one.” — Marcus Aurelius.

In both ancient Rome and modern America, people have been tempted to talk rather than take action. The allure of philosophizing instead of living by those philosophies is a common trap. In today's society obsessed with content, outrage, and drama, it's even easier to become lost in the echo chamber of hypothetical debates about what's "better." We can spend endless hours discussing right and wrong and how to encourage others to improve. We can even argue about the meaning of certain statements. However, this is all a distraction. If you want to make the world a better place, there's a lot you can do. But only one thing will truly make an impact: step away from the argument, dig yourself...

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“This is not your responsibility, but it is your problem.” — Cheryl Strayed.

While it may not be your duty to resolve every issue, sometimes circumstances beyond your control can make it your problem to solve. For instance, if a car breaks down in front of you and blocks the road, it's not your obligation to fill up the driver's gas tank, but it is your problem to deal with the obstruction. Similarly, if war breaks out and you're drafted, you didn't create the conflict, but it is now your problem to fight. These situations can happen unexpectedly and be frustrating and unfair, but they are still yours to confront. You can choose to complain or seek blame, but ultimately, how you respond defines you. Cheryl Strayed wisely noted that life may present...

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“Every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson.

Ralph Waldo Emerson's wisdom One can observe that everyone has a unique set of strengths and abilities that surpass one's own. This is an undeniable fact. For instance, someone may excel at maintaining eye contact, while another person may have quantum physics or geopolitics expertise. Some people may be more knowledgeable in gift-giving, name-recalling, weightlifting, anger management, self-confidence, or building friendships. No individual can claim to be the best at all these things, and no one cannot improve. Therefore, acknowledging this reality requires humility. Furthermore, one should approach every encounter with an open mind and enthusiasm, viewing each experience as an opportunity to learn from others. This perspective can facilitate growth and skill development at a rapid pace. Best of...

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“There is good in everything, if only we look for it.” — Laura Ingalls Wilder

Laura Ingalls Wilder, the renowned author of the Little House series, demonstrated a fearless attitude towards some of the harshest and inhospitable conditions on earth, such as the unforgiving soil, Indian territories, Kansas prairies, and the humid backwoods of Florida. She did not let these challenges dampen her spirit or make her cynical because she viewed them as adventures. She saw every place as an opportunity to experience something new and approach each obstacle with a positive and persevering pioneer spirit. This does not imply that she was delusional or viewed the world through rose-colored glasses. Instead, she chose to perceive situations for what they could be with hard work and a positive outlook. Conversely, some people may choose to...

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