Based on your own experience, values, goals, accomplishments, and vision.Analyze the situation and challenge with facts and figures and not based on your emotions. Answer these questions; Who, what, when, where, with whom, how much, how long, how, why, what's next? Follow the process and write down the answers.Identify the voids in your knowledge and look for explanations.Do not base your decisions on assumptions, fear or anger.Based on this process, you will most likely be able to make a decision founded on your results and overcome the difficult situation by taking action. This approach is far from easy; even the right decision can hurt. Take your time.You will growth from the experience. No one can take this win from you....
What you track determines Your Lens - Seth GodinKeeping track of how many times we've been rejected, someone has broken your heart, double-crossed us, or let us down.Why keep track of them? Are they making us better?"Wouldn't it make more sense to keep track of other stuff? To keep track of all the times, it worked? All the times we took a risk? All the times we were able to brighten someone else's day? When we start doing that, we can redefine ourselves as people who can impact the world. "If a narrative isn't working well, why are you using it? The narrative is something that you choose. Once we can dig deep and find a different narrative, then we...
You are not what you say you will do; you are what you do.Resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties.Most of us strive for comfort and avoid growth. However, resilience can be found only in the zone of development, in any situation that will test your abilities strengths and allow you to grow and develop skills. You are not resilient by doing something ordinary, but something that challenges you and pushes you. The more your deal with adversity voluntarily, the more resilient you will become.In most cases, the biggest obstacle for every person is himself. Insecurities are consequences of limiting beliefs. So the first step is to be aware of them and find the source of these insecurities....
THIS BEING HUMAN IS A GUEST HOUSE.
EVERY MORNING A NEW ARRIVAL.
A JOY, A DEPRESSION, A MEANNESS.
SOME MOMENTARY AWARENESS COMES
AS AN UNEXPECTED VISITOR.
WELCOME AND ENTERTAIN THEM ALL...
THE DARK THOUGHT, THE SHAME, THE MALICE, MEET THEM AT THE DOOR LAUGHING AND INVITE THEM IN.
BE GRATEFUL FOR WHOEVER COMES BECAUSE EACH HAS BEEN SENT AS A GUIDE FROM BEYOND.
--RUMI
"Don't aim to be understood by others before you understand yourself. People may never understand your intentions. You know them. They may never understand why you do what you do or say what you say. You know the reasons. They may never understand why you treat them the way you do, or why you treat others the way you do. You know why. They may never understand the words that you say or the language your eyes speak. You understand these languages because you create them. They may never understand the strength it takes to be the way that you are. You know your weaknesses and your struggles, and you are the one who works to overcome them, so your...
